First and
foremost, I have to have a lot of patience—that is key. Second, I bring plenty
of non-sugary snacks and make sure we all get a solid meal before we go. Consider
sugar to be your worst enemy when going into a car for a solid amount of time.
When my kids were younger, I would run around with them at the rest area and
that was great to get out some energy. I could even just tell them to run
around a tree 10 times and they would. As they get older, I have to step it up
a little since the tree suggestion is now usually met with a lot of eye
rolling. During our last road trip I started a jump rope competition, since
that is a skill both have not mastered yet. We went on a 2 week road trip (I
know, sounds crazy), so we made a lot of stops and the competition continued at
each stop. Each child had three tries and could mark the highest number as a score.
The last day of the trip I had a little prize to give to the Jump Rope Master.
Don’t
forget to think outside the box when you’re on a road trip. Try to have other
things to entertain the kids besides electronics, which are great in
moderation. Audiobooks are nice cause then the kids will look out the window.
Some nice games to bring are tic-tac-toe or card games. Or small crafts like
bracelets, play dough or Legos are always great too. Don’t ask the kids if they
want to do it instead of playing on their electronics—just start doing it
yourself and they will join in. Ask them how to do something and they will get
interested. Rock-paper-scissors and I spy are also great.
Use this
opportunity as a time to bond with your family. You can learn more about your
children and teach them things, or tell them stories about yourself or others
close to you. Make the best of this time you have just sitting there with each other in a small
space. Talk about the surroundings as you drive by. Here are a few good
conversation starters:
· Name some people who make you feel good just by being around them.
(get to know the friends of your kids)
· Name something cars do that buses don’t
· What can you see from an airplane that you can't see from the
ground?
· Name some living things that don’t grow in soil
· What could you find under the car seat?
· How many things can you name that are the shape of a dollar bill?
· Name five things you like about yourself
· What colors do you see in the Spring? Autumn? Winter? Summer?
Drive safe and enjoy.
Drive safe and enjoy.